Not advice — just something I’m sitting with


Hi Reader,

Sharing a quick insight with you this week, as I have to catch an early-morning flight.

Laura and I will be travelling for about 10 days, which means I’ll be working mostly from coffee shops, my favourite place to work!

Just my laptop, great coffee, and plenty of background noise... music to my ears.
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Earlier today, I was watching an interview with Seth Godin. One question he asked stuck with me enough that I paused the video and just sat there for a minute.

He said,

"What will the version of me 10 years from now be glad I did today, even if it’s annoying, uncomfortable, or unrewarding right now?"

I immediately noticed where my brain didn't go.

It didn’t go to buying nice things or upgrading my lifestyle. Or doing something to impress people.

It went to boring stuff, like taking better care of my health. Doing the unglamorous work instead of chasing the exciting idea, or sticking with something longer than feels necessary.

Looking back 10 years, I'm really glad I decided to start my side hustle (that was actually 7 years ago), and write on my laptop close to 365 days/year.

Because I did that for four long years, I no longer have a boss or work a 9-5.

When you’re in the middle of it, it doesn't feel heroic. Most days, it just feels mildly inconvenient. Sometimes, it's just downright painful or pointless.

But looking back now, I can see that the biggest changes in my life haven't come from big moments, but from decisions that felt small at the time and only made sense later.

I don’t have a big takeaway here. I just want to pose the same question to you:

What’s one thing you could do this week that future-you would be relieved you didn’t put off again?

I’ll check in again next week, likely from a coffee shop! : )

💛

Colin


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